A Response to Richard Louv

June 1, 2011

photo by Linda Nylind for the Guardian

Richard Louv’s new book, “The Nature Principle’ has just been published.  Following on “Last Child in the Woods: Saving our Children from Nature Deficit Disorder”, a book that links many childhood disorders to a disconnection to the natural environment, Louv’s latest book (see this article in Outside) calls for an increased connection to the natural world to compensate for our increasingly technological lifestyles. He writes that the future belongs to those individuals and businesses that can balance the virtual with the real. As a psychologist who works with many adults and children, I would like to attest to the veracity of  Louv’s journalistic discoveries with examples from people’s lives. Read the rest of this entry »

The Changing Climate Changes Me

May 26, 2011

     Do human beings continue to adapt  to their environments? Are some of those changes psychological? Are humans experiencing subtle alterations in their emotional and cognitive organization in response to climate change? While we ponder these questions with regard to humans, we are noticing suh chnages in other mammals. Antarctic Penguins are being driven from their homes, according to the New York Times.  While those on the peninsula have suffered a catastrophic drop in population, those on Ross Island are making use of other environmental changes in order to adapt. The scientific study and tracking of climate change is based on a belief that all species develop specific adaptations to their environment. Are people, therefore, also already changing in small ways?  My tentative answer, based on case studies and field research conducted during 2009 and 2010, is that the human psyche is shifting in subtle ways to adapt to transforming ecosystems whether they be urban, suburban or rural. The same consumerist processes that are causing careless damage to the earth’s ecosystems have also become a part of people’s personalities.I have a chapter coming out in a forthcoming book edited by Nick Totton and Mary-Jayne Rust.  See a preview of some of my findings after the jump.

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Walk Therapy

May 13, 2011

photo by Ellen Mcknight at emcknight.photoshelter.com

Is sitting in a chair always the best way to work out problems?  For some there is nothing more relaxing than taking a seat in the therapeutic chair and sharing. For others it can feel stifling and even hierarchical, almost an enactment of passivity or agency loss.  Sitting in psychotherapy can almost embody the way in which people get stuck in calcified roles that belie a more natural sense of self and relatedness. Further a great deal of new research suggests that sitting is detrimental to one’s health.  For this reason I have been experimenting with walking psychotherapy sessions.

Walking enacts agency by keeping neurological processes active.  This can help metabolize excess energy in the person with an ADD type profile. One young man who typically could maintain only a superficial focus was able to deeply experience sadness about the death of a younger brother.

Walking can also generate energy for the person with a more depressive temperament. A different young man had fallen into a terrible stasis of bad feeling and self-deprecation.  While walking together he interrupted a vicious cycle where inactivity perpetuated self-loathing, which induced inactivity.  Within weeks of walking he was able to more constructively work on dealing with his depression, which then subsided.

Further, the act of walking can convert obsessional mutations into physical action, leaving the mind freer for more expansive conversation.  One woman’s thought patterns were so hindered by haunting and repetitive ruminations that she couldn’t think of anything to say.  Up on her feet and moving forward, she was freed from her habitual self-focus and capable of engaging in a more natural dialogue

Finally, there is much to be said for immersing self-exploration in a landscape with a broad visual horizon. The intake of non-verbal sensory data can soothe and relax a person, creating more spontaneous associations and dialogue. Also a person experiences him or her self as connected to a larger whole.  Their problems, difficulties or struggles aren’t manifestations of their discrete and individual psychopathology. Rather, they are the incarnation of humanity.

Of course, walking outside challenges confidentiality. Therefore, one must choose carefully when walking is appropriate in an ongoing therapeutic dialogue. Yet side by side walking creates a kind of movable frame that contains the dialogue between patient and therapist.  And sometimes it renders that which is shameful into something ordinary, a simple part of the human lexicon.

There is also a fear that walking can lead to a violation of professional boundaries if the relationship slips into something else. I guess this depends on how a therapeutic relationship is defined.  For me, therapy is a kind of friendship organized around a specific role relationship where one person brings to bear all of their knowledge and expertise toward the solving of another’s person’s psychological dilemmas, whether they be physiological, intrapsychic, familial or cultural.

Freud himself was known to walk with his patients through the streets of Vienna. Clay Cockrell is also conducting walk and talk session in New York City.  It is a new direction in my work but ultimately connected to my belief that sustainable behaviors help our ecology and our psychological function. Walking is an ancient practice that promotes physical and environmental health.  Walking together has also always been seen to evoke massive social change: King walked, Ghandi walked, and so too did Moses.  Why should it not be also an intricate component of psychological transformation?

Sex Tips for Teens, or Sexual Mores for the 21st Century

March 23, 2011

 

from knowabouthealth.com

What is the best way to talk to teens about sexuality?  Surprisingly, I have found that young people respond positively to the concept of a meaningful and sustainable sexuality. Just like kids want to protect their ecosystems, they also want to protect their bodies.  Between high school and the first post-college years many young people seem caught in a vortex of hip cynicism. Yet, in the secret safety of a psychologist’s office these same young adults express a longing for the more traditional relationships they don’t know how to have. By popular request here is a condensed version of the types of comments that have been helpful to teens and their parents. Read the rest of this entry »

Stand There

March 17, 2011

 

Since Ordinary Earth is a blog about how sustainable living practices can support better mental and environmental health some people have asked me about Japan: what I think about nuclear power, the impact of environmental catastrophes on mental health, and the probable emergence of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder in Japan. Yikes! Those are all the wrong questions at an inappropriate time. Instead, as the buddhist saying goes, “Don’t just do something. Stand there.”  Read the rest of this entry »

Thoughts about Japan by Adrian Tait

March 14, 2011

 

I haven’t been able to organize my thinking around what is taking place in Japan.  I received, however, a thoughtful post from  a colleague, Adrian Tait (UKCP Registered Psychotherapist, Member: The Guild of Psychotherapists, Visiting Fellow: Centre for Psycho-Social Studies, University of the West of England) written to a newly forming alliance of clinicians looking at the relationship between climate change and human behavior.  He raises evocative questions and thoughts. See it here: Read the rest of this entry »

The I’m not Frank Rich Syndrome: A Clinical Analysis

March 8, 2011

 

Frank Rich

A funny thing happened in my practice last week.  A number of people, no fewer than seven, lamented, “I’m not Frank Rich.” People are often unhappy and upset when they talk to me.  Sometimes they discuss the impact of upbringing and sometimes their problematic temperaments.  Never, however, had I heard so many people attributing their malaise to not being Frank Rich. What was the meaning of his entering my office as some kind of iconic blank screen? Read the rest of this entry »

Who owns a country? The question of space, place and territory.

March 1, 2011

 

by Robert Daniels at http://fineartamerica.com

Far away, people in countries across the Mideast have been rebelliously signaling to their leadership that they want better governance and more freedoms.  Barack Obama’s speech in Cairo spoke about a world where differences in religion become opportunities to better know each other and to create a shared world where all children grow up with the same dreams. He described his own life as the remarkable production of different religions and countries all within the embrace of a democratic nation.

Like Bruce Mason in Wallace Stegner’s Recapitulation, every sweep of one’s personal life history is also a geographic tour. Place is meaningful. We remember where we first walked atop a high structure, like a tree or stone wall, heard John Lennon’s voice, or realized that we really liked someone (wasn’t it on the campus lawn underneath a canopy of trees?), or where we met our spouses.  Here in New York it is easy to take for granted how important developmental places also span a variety of divergent cultural spaces. Gay, straight or somewhere in between; dark, light or medium colored; scarved, hooded, capped or pony-tailed; there is no New York without its differences and there is no person here who isn’t larger for having made sense of that diversity while still finding a place to stand as one’s self.

In thinking about the question of political leadership and the Mideast uprisings, I only know that the attachment to space, place and geography is largely personal. Territory is as psychological as it is a bordered landscape.   Sometimes nation states and the authorities that run them tend to mistake what is personal and geographic for that which is symbolic and societal. There has been a loud cry from the Mideast upholding the integrity of a people’s right to their own meanings of land and country.

Everyday when I wander about the streets on New York, I am aware of the many problems we face in our country. I am, however, very appreciative of the fact that no one group or leader owns this place.  It really does belong to a kind of cultural multiplicity.  Through a variety of small economic exchanges, personal relationships, or simply sharing a sidewalk or a subway ride together, we create the beginnings of a world where differences present an opportunity to know each other better and to therefore augment humanity’s growth. Nonetheless, it is a much harder life.

Obese Primates

February 22, 2011

 

from The New York Times

Update: The following post is very rant-like, my apologies.  The research on monkeys upsets me.  Do we have to do this to these creatures who can’t make choices to prove that not getting outside and moving one’s body and eating poorly can be deleterious to health? I’m glad we have medical interventions that can help.  I also wish that we all could observe a better social ethic around living healthily. Seeing monkeys and humans lose the graciousness of their being in this way makes me ache. There is no other way to say it.

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This article in the NYTimes described obesity research being conducted on primates.  Why does reading about primates confined to cages, eating bad foods as they gain pound after pound, tear me apart more than my knowledge of all the people who live this way? So many people get out of bed, trudge to work, eat donuts/muffins/bagel with coffee on the go, sit or stand all day enclosed in a small space, snack to forestall boredom and fatigue, eat unhealthy take-out lunch, then sit, stand and snack some more until its time to go home and watch TV (and snack). Are we any different than those poor research primates, save the fact that no one is studying us? Read the rest of this entry »

Valentine’s Day: Something Real

February 14, 2011

from flickr.com

There can be more to Valentine’s Day than marching out to the nearest store to buy something.  There can be more to Valentine’s Day than longing for your partner to behave like someone else. There can be more to Valentine’s Day than wishing you were in a relationship.  Valentine’s Day also offers the opportunity to cherish and honor the fact that any of us feel anything at all. In my work, I often marvel at how much people hurt because they care so deeply.  The intensity of disappointment obscures the underlying gift of a capacity for connection, empathy, and appreciation.

This Valentine’s Day, before heading for the florist or the chocolatier, take a walk outside.  Note the extended daylight, the spindly tree branches curling in on themselves as they prepare for a spring resurgence, and the more frequent and higher pitched birdsong that heralds the last weeks of winter. Amble about your wilderness of stone and steel, or tree and star, and notice life bustling around you. You are witnessing a great wonder, the ability to experience life even in its most bitter vicissitudes.

Reality is the greatest of all Valentine’s presents and you don’t need Hallmark to share it.  Go help someone in need.  Volunteer to tend a city park.  Sip cappuccino  with an old friend.  Take flowers to an elderly or otherwise lonely person.  Photograph the sunset. Play with your dog. Listen to Rachmaninoff, recite Shakespeare, dance wildly in your room to Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young, bake bread, hug someone, have a long deep conversation over dinner, look through your save box, and most importantly – wake up and notice everything.  For it is there in the fine excitement of the senses that one finds the path toward most authentic love.


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